It sounds like your husband needs a break too. It sounds like he works hard, comes home and takes care of you, then listens to you complain, gets wound up, doesn't vent, stays quiet.
Chameli, look at your situation from a newly flown in fly on the wall point of view. If a fly just flew in from the window into your house, what would he see if he watched you both everyday?
Would he see a tired man coming home from work, unable to free himself of his responsibilities? Would he see a man who makes the effort to be kind to his wife. only to be hurt by a sharp rebuke? Would he see a man who is secretly in a lot of despair bcos he is afraid of his relationship turning out like his parents?
Sorry I am focussing only on the husband here, its bcos you know how you feel, but can you really see what husband is feeling? I am truly sorry to read your words, bcos you are unhappy and feel alone but do you think your other half may be feeling like this too?
Is there somewhere you can go for a 2 week break away from eachother, like a friend or parents?
You really made me think. thanks a lot!!!! :)
Going to my parents in this condition will not be relaxing for me. They all think I am so happy and have no issues so they hardly ask me how things are going while bombarding me with their problems. Recently I just dont have any energy to listen to them.
Perhaps I can stay with a friend for a few days..