Re: Communication issues in marriage
yes i agree you do need to get away hun, this really is not good for your health.
"We have had several discussions and he told me that his childhood was full of arguments between his parents so he doesnt like it when someone argues or discusses with him. He doenst like conflicts and therefore he doesnt like to tell people off either. for example in many situations his sister has been really annoying but he didnt stop her cuz he is afraid of conflicts. thats something he told me."
This is what is putting stress in you! I understand about his childhood and all but without having a discussion or even maybe a little argument how can you know what your partner is thinking or feeling. If you don't have arguments its unhealthy. He is not making any space for you to breath but is putting out all the rules you should not break. You HAVE to meet in the middle some where. And i really don't know when you should talk to him about this, but i think without him realizing this you will never feel like that he understands you. And i feel like he just shuts you down as soon as you break a rule, which is very worng.