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Haha, its not about where one lives. What happens is once we make up our minds that having a certain thing (or lacking of) is what's going to solve our problems then the rest of the options dim down. Once we have that thing we realize that it did nothing and then we look for the next thing that would be solution. This reminds me of the story of this olympic gold medalist who practiced to win that medal her whole life and once she had it she didn't know what to do.