Again, whats funny is some of you that are sooo trippin their fuses here, particularly PCG is the first one to make threads about how desi men are motey ganjey and perhaps kaley. These demands will come up in an arranged setup. It's just like going to a shop, choosing a product based on the specs that you like, and so you'll try to get the best one naturally. And yes, if girls look at a guy's bank account, salary, the size of his 'tid', his hairlines etc then the guy has every right to pick out a gori larki.
gents, you got it right
ladies have an issue being compared to some checklist
but have no probs whipping out their own checklists when it comes to guys
and even worse-- when it comes to evaluating someone for their brother or son
But that's what we're saying, right. I don't think guys really care about skin color! Everybody starts off with some sort of checklist but if and when you come across somebody you're compatible with, you throw the check list away, because it doesn't matter anymore.
Isn't it a little absurd to have a checklist anyway?
Aish, I think for some guys understandably if girls have checklists about 'I want tall guy, I want this bla bla' then its fair if guys had checklists as well, I agree with Spock on that.
BUT
Personally
I do not have checklists. I agree with you that if two people like each other then a 'checklist' goes in the garbage
There should NO 'checklists' anyway to be honest based on colour or other features that are made by God.
I’m sorry but they do, dont take it too hard I mean think about it, in an arranged setup, when they aren’t in love, just trying to figure out whether they are compatible and attracted to the other person, physical attributes do play a role.
However, when one is in love, he/she would overlook such things and throw away their check lists.
I like tanned skin to be honest not too dark not to white more a sort of gold.
Anyway inner beauty is just as important.
Theres loads of girls who show off thier flesh and who slap on ten layers of foundation but true ladies look lovely even in the midst of chaos.
To me a lady is a lady by the way she carries herself… one can even find a pale donkey but the attitude is what makes the difference so said the elders.
Spocky buddy is right ! Its our birth right to look for a fair girl. Be it a broiler chicken but it should be white as flour :k:
I know most of the girls here are ditch black. PCG , BBq, Sara, Aashi , noshi , Saima and others have so dark complexion ke unko dekh kar tu tawa bhi sharma jaye