Re: College Girl
Quite a few, def more than 10 including girls straight from pak..some would at least go to one just to experience it and may not go again (doesnt mean they’re immoral just for attending) but some would attend the lower scale parties in a guys apartment suite..others were more regulars..very few who lived on campus did not attend any, almost all attended at least once. Some Pak girls would wear leggings under their skirts to cover their legs and although not revealing it still was very sexualized dressing even with leggings. Girls who do this publically are a turn off for me but now that I’ve become older seems like this is becoming the norm for Pak girls these days esp with the upcoming social media generation, who are much worse than my generation who grew up with no smart phones or Facebook etc.
The studious nerdy Pak girls and hijabi girls were the only ones who did not attend such parties (surprisingly there werent many studious Pak girls at my uni, most of the nerdy desi girls were actually Indian..most Pak girls were outgoing and always looking for fun, education did not seem a priority to them on weekends unless of course it was exam week)
But now having said all that, nothing wrong with being careful but a guy should not judge a girl just because she dormed or lived in a hostel. Judge aspects of her personality and how she presents herself in public–if she emphasizes fun, socializing with guys, partying, wears tight or revealing clothes, her priorities are messed up, etc, look at the overall picture, those provide much better insights than her living in a dorm. Her red flags will be obvious over time than her living in a dorm because not all dorm girls are like the ones I described, just a portion of them. In fact a girl who does live in a dorm and did not do any of that stuff is the girl you want to marry–shows despite all the temptation and opportunities, she had a strong enough character to not engage in that.