Re: College Girl
I do agree with overall gist of what you’re saying. Yes the intermingling and flirting in college lounge occurs during the day. But night time parties, frat parties, going clubbing are where these pak girls generally go wild. No way these would be possible during day time and would be much more difficult to participate in on consistent basis if they were commuting from home, not impossible but parents would wonder where daughter is at 2 am when these parties are still on going. Day time parties are relatively mild, yes there may be drinking but no where to the level at the parties that occur at night and during the weekend. These night time weekend parties are on a completely different level. Life on campus is completely different than commuting, not even on same level in terms of opportunities, ease of participating, raunchiness, and temptation.
Frat parties at my uni used to have dance parties, lingerie parties (yes girls actually wore their sexy underwears and nothing else), Greek toga parties (very revealing white togas, sometimes nothing underneath), beach themed parties, halloween parties (the time where a girl can dress up slutty with her friends and not be judged) at night on weekends that some Pak girls participated in–and these are very highly sexualized, raunchy, hedonistic parties that were very popular on campus. Everyone getting dressed up and wearing slutty clothes and getting excited to go out on a Fri or Sat night to party without parents ever finding out, clearly the temptation and peer pressure and curiosity is there. Have to be very strong character and discplined and self sacrificing to withstand the temptation, many girls these days do not possess these qualities anymore. And im not even counting informal house parties that occured in someones suite on a late Fri or Sat night where people would get drunk, flirt and look to get laid. And it was girls who lived on campus that participated. Girls (and even guys) commuting could not participate at midnight on a Friday night.
The parties below are very much real and very popular on college campuses (all of them listed in the article have happened at my uni which is a top tier prestigious US university but these occur even more so at state schools) and a good portion of the Pak girls who lived on campus did often participate. Ironically, it was the international students esp the guys straight from Pakistan that used to go crazy for these parties.
http://www.lacenguyen.com/lifestyle-blog/your-theme-parties-checklist