Re: College Girl
Yeah exactly. Lets be real–there are some Pakistani girls who purposefully want to dorm away for home because it becomes easier to party, drink and fool around. I know living in a dorm is not a prerequiste for doing those things but it does lower the barriers substantially and makes it easier. We have all seen such girls in uni. No one is saying all girls that live in a dorm are like this, he’s just wants to make sure she’s not that small group of girls who do use living away from home as an opportunity to go wild. He is just being careful. Why are the female posters on here calling him insecure. I mean I agree it’s dumb for him to have preconceived notions and using those thoughts to not even consider her but I don’t blame him for having such thoughts. Stop calling the guy insecure when he is just trying to make sure his girl hasn’t been around the entire campus. That’s his perogative, not insecurity. It would be insecurity if he tried to change her or continued to be suspicious after being in a relationship with her. He is trying to find the girl of his liking and mindset, nothing wrong with that. Stop always calling guys narrow-minded or controlling or insecure when he doesn’t want a girl that’s been around as his wife.
Dude I’m not a female… and if this is such a big issue for him, he should stop considering this girl and find some other one. No one has some magic advice here that will change the fact that the girl lived in dorm. If she is not your type, move on. Plenty of fish out there!