Re: Classmate wants to go out
LC, you must be hawt!
Folks, having lunch with someone AFTER making sure your wife/fiancee/significant other knows, is perfectly fine. It's just LUNCH! And if my desi brothers are so hawt and the girl tries something, walk away, have some control.
To my desi brother CP, trust me, she's NOT trying to get into your pants, no matter how hawt you are, secondly, if you're engaged and married, you could have just said "can I bring me julie with me?" or when you get to your 'Date', make sure you talk a little bit about your wife/SO so that she knows that you are thinking about her.
I swear, she's NOT going to try to hump you, and if she does, boy, where were all these girls when I was single?