Choosing not to have children..

[InformedConsent]

Re: Choosing not to have children..

@Sara516

I know this might not be the most politically correct thing to say, and while I am for a woman’s right to choose whether she has children or not since its her body, when it comes to this, I lean a bit towards the conservative side :halo:

The idea that one can choose to NEVER have children is just inconcievable. I definitely want to have kids in the future, and that there’s a chance that I might be unable to (never know what Allah has in store) is heartbreaking enough but I cant imagine how someone could NOT want to have children. I’m not talking about those who try to have kids but don’t but thsoe who make the conscious choice to never have their own kids or adopt.

Their reasons being.. they don’t want to be tied down, they want to be able to change careers/relationships/cities easily, without any hassle.

They claim to be unfairly targetted, like they are the first ones asked to stay late for work since they won’t have “family” to interfere with that and society will look down on them as being selfish.

I know this is very un-PC to say but I kinda agree, I think the “not wanting to be tied down to anything” excuse just seems very immature.

But on teh other hand, I know there are worse things, liek really horrible parents who will have kids and then beat them and kill them; also, i know its not my place to decide who should have kids and who should not. But again, the idea that someone could just NOT want children.. its just such a foreign concept to me :halo:

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** Uk has the highest percentage of teenage pregnancy in EUROPE, though at the same time it’s facing ageing and population decline specifically in Scotland, that’s the outcome of collapsed family system.**
** Nowadays mosly teenage girls are deciding to have babies. These are just students in schools/colleges/uni. Children are producing their children. Consequently, production in market (sorry to use that term) means children are very vulnerable physically, emotionally, mentally and phsychologically. Nightmare and challenge to control and teach them. Hence teachers are learning the lessons for their past sins at the hands of these children.**
** Overall trend is changed now mature and educated ladies are opting not to have a child might be to show their protest that teenagers have stolen their parental right:naraz: **
** Some of teachers (my friends) have decided not to face this music by having the baby. I think they are right. **