you know rabia what i noticed about pakistani molesters (someone correct me if i am wrong) but they tend to do this when they are young and unmarried. After marriage they dont molest again...and they dont even think about molesting their own child. Just an observation I made upon hearing about stories like this and seeing the molestor later in life.
someone once told me this is the norm for the older generation in pak. it's out of curiosity since many of these guys have been sexually deprived of any physical/emotional intimacy or sex education..... NOT that it makes it right or anything! but it may be just that.
so what do you all think...curiousity? lack of education? or are they just pure perverts with mental issues?
it's unlike molesters in the west....they do it before marriage and continue even after having their own family...some even do it to their own children.
I haven't heard any thing like that in my family ever. So I don't know. But I don't think after marriage they can stop molesting only a few cases but most probably they can do molesting to their child too.
Once I heard my mom was telling her friend and she didn't know that I was listening in other room.
My mom was telling her friend kay aik apni doosri friend kay ghar wo gaeen to daikha chacha apni bhateeji kay shirt main haath dala huwa tha aur bhateeji khail main magan thi like normal.
Meri ammi nain apni dost ko bataya kay tumhara daiwar tumhari beti kay saath aisa kar raha tha to larki ki maan boli yay in logon main hota hai sub aik doosray ko aisa hi kartay hain aur aisa kahtay huway wo hans rahi thi.