children and threading

[Paheli00]

Re: children and threading

Well, no point in responding to Bebo since she’s “out” according to her. So I’ll move on from that.

Mods: If you feel that anything else I write on this post is a personal attack, please feel free to delete.

@Sidra54

How do you know I was not bullied? I have lived a tougher life than ANYONE can ever imagine, your bullying will seem like a pat on the back. I just have made a goal to make people smile everyday and not focus on the past.

BTW, calling your own sister kaali and moti doesn’t make you a poster child for anti-bullying either.

1. I don’t recall ever writing that you were never the victim of bullying. But that doesn’t mean that you yourself aren’t a bully. As we’ve already mentioned earlier…there can be different outcomes of being bullied. Some survive it just fine. Others fall victim to depression, ED’s etc. And I guess you’re now bringing in a 3rd option. That some victim’s of bullying become bullies themselves and have this attitude that they can say whatever they want to others and that others should just “get over it”. Absolutely zero regard for the fact that others may have a different emotional reaction than they did. No ability to comprehend that not everyone is the same. I won’t speak for others here…but personally, I would never want my future children or anyone’s else I care about to grow up with this attitude where they’re totally desensitized to the feelings of others.

2. LOL…I guess you couldn’t resist referring to a post I wrote MONTHS ago huh. It’s ok. Once again, I’m not surprised at all. I stand by everything I wrote. Yes, 1 of my sister’s is kaali and moti. Heck her weight actually causes her health issues. I’m not ashamed of the fact that I wrote a post on a online forum asking to suggestions on the style of clothing for her at my wedding. In fact, if I didn’t care about her feelings, and I had the same attitude as you do (i.e.. she should just “get over” whatever life throws at her)…then I wouldn’t have invited her to the wedding at all. All I had to do is delay the wedding for 1 more month and she wouldn’t have been able to attend due to finals. However, I’m not desensitized to what she feels and am willing to do whatever I can to maker her feel good about herself…instead of telling her to deal with it and get over it. If you or anyone else wants to twist my words and turn it into something ugly…then I can’t stop that. But don’t fool yourself into thinking that my post here is anything similar to you actually “chasing” your sister for her mustache. Actually no…if it makes YOU feel better to think that my post here is comparable to someone picking on their younger sister at home…then by all means continue to do so.

3. I don’t think I ever declared myself the “poster child for anti-bulling”. All I’m doing is sharing my own opinions and using my personal experience to explain why I feel the way I do. I thought that was the whole point of the forum here. Someone correct me if I’m wrong.