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But the threads in Life 1 sure do make you feel as if the stats look like this: men - 90% women - 5%
people like danial shah say 100% of men cheat.....so why u blaming the girls for the way stats are looking in Life 1
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what if the man cheated on his wife with another man.......would that make it acceptable to the wife
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Impulse, logic evades you, right?
I think SOME [people] are wired in a certain way that precludes them from arguing in a logical and rational manner.
I am going to go slow this time…
Title of the thread: cheating men, you with me still, impulse?
My response: I think the reasons are blah blah
Impulse: But daniel said 100% of the men cheat, why are you blaming women
Me: WTF? I am not daniel and I dont worship the deity Daniel. Who’s blaming women? me? When?
I am simply stating men have certain needs and when not fulfilled tend to go astray. I am not putting the onus on women for not fulfilling men’s needs.
here is a good read. This came out today. Read and weep:
http://msnbc.msn.com/id/12410071/?GT1=8199
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poor you. i dont wanna be mean to you so i m gonna wish you luck.:)
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No Noor: No one is trying to justify cheating. Mating with multiple partners is a natural urge in males. A lot of males (78% according to the survey) work hard against this urge. So if you are lucky enough to have a hubby who is not a cheater, please cherish him. Don’t blame him for the act the 22% of his gender commits.
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So men don’t have ability to turn down a girl when they are in that situation? I’m a guy and I didn’t know that.
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Being alone with women will make a guy cheat? What?? Are you people kidding me? Please grow up.
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however Id like to rephrase this...ALL men cheat IF given the opportunity....and also..
the one's that dont cheat....either werent given the opportunity OR they never put themselves in such a situation where they would end up cheating (ie being alone with a woman).
...this comment holds no merit, back in Nov. i was in Bordueax, France and a stunning french woman enters our room, she was there to see a friend of mine who just happen to have gone out minutes earlier, well she kissed me whilst i was off guard and rather than fall into temptation i asked her to leave, because i had someone close to me back home in the UK, so see not (how you phrased it ALL) men cheat given the oppurtunity.
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Strangely, modern women seem highly attracted to gays..
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when they put themselves in that situation repeatedly they will.
If you go to see a girl everyday. You are in her room, going out with her etc…doesnt that lead to other things?
I’m not saying that men dont have they ability to refuse a girl. But if he puts himself in a situation where he is repeatedly being seduced by some woman. I think he will give in…eventually.
It’s in the hadith…when a man and a woman are alone together the 3rd party is shaitan. tell me what does that mean to you? something will happen right? maybe not sex…but something. either way it’s cheating to me. If my husband is alone with a girl and she seduced him. I would be upset that he put himself in that situation. even if he refused her.
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:)
good for you
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u let her kiss you and then you say u didnt cheat? WOW!
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^ he was caught off-guard remember? It wasnt intentional, and he did tell her to go away,s o no its not cheating
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Barfee re-read what i posted, i do remember saying "she kissed me whilst i was off guard".
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as usual you love to paraphrase things in your own way!
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seeee…the 3rd party was shaitan! 
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the comment I'm about to make isnt towards Orpheus or anything
but ummm....isnt that what a lot of men say "i was caught off guard"
my reply to men that say that..."why were u in the room alone with that girl in the first place."
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^ Depends.. if ti was a kiss, its believeable.. if it was sex, errr no!!! :o
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haha true....but i dunno. i can see how that can happen. But it only happens if you allow the girl to get that close to you. dont u think?
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^ Well sometimes it can be unepxected.. guy cud be alone with her, working on a project for work or school or something.. n it just happens.. but only if its a kiss though, there is no way sex can be an "accident"