Cheating men

Barfee · May 10, 2006, 2:36am

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oh puhleeze sara! How could u not see/feel someone so close to you? Oh and did you read the part about the girl being stunning? The guy checked her out like that and oh it just so happens that AFTER she kissed em he realizes what she has done?

Barfee · May 10, 2006, 2:37am

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And mr.orpheus what would you say about that someone who is closed to you being off-guard while some hunky hunk kisses her?

Sara516 · May 10, 2006, 2:38am

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Looking isnt really considered cheating by some.. just really disrespectful if he does it in front of her

AnGeL_EyEs · May 10, 2006, 2:40am

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but kissing is...no matter how it happened....to some people it is.

WitchDr · May 10, 2006, 2:40am

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Barfee: I agree with you on this. Getting kissed off-gaurd by a stunning girl when alone with here is a story I don't buy as well.

Sara516 · May 10, 2006, 2:41am

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AE, intention counts.. In my opinion, an "accidental" kiss isnt cheating.. i'm sure I'd be pissed off, but for me cheating is something thats vicious.. the former, is stupidity but the latter I feel takes premeditation, and a total lack of regard for the SO's feelings

WitchDr · May 10, 2006, 2:42am

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That will be attempted rape hence the bast$%d needs to be smacked.

Barfee · May 10, 2006, 2:42am

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Heres my analysis of it:

the guy made it up to make his point
the guy isn't a good kisser(hence teh stunning french woman left) and he turned it around to say he told her to leave
he imagined the woman

AnGeL_EyEs · May 10, 2006, 2:43am

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exactly...he should have ran out screaming "ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh"!!!! hehe

Sara516 · May 10, 2006, 2:44am

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Lolz barfee, u cant be 100 % positive abt that.. anyway we’re not puttin Orpheus on trial here But his point was, not all men will cheat

Barfee · May 10, 2006, 2:44am

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i guess thats what it comes down to, our interpretation of cheating.

I am extremly(almost annoyingly) loyal person that is what I expect from the other person in a relationship(any, including siblings, parents, friends, etc)

WitchDr · May 10, 2006, 2:45am

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Or he wanted that to happen so it happened in his mind and he is oblivious to the fact that it happened only in his mind.

Barfee · May 10, 2006, 2:47am

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I know mine wouldn’t lol thats all i care for!

Sara516 · May 10, 2006, 2:47am

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I thnk i expect too much from ppl now..

AnGeL_EyEs · May 10, 2006, 2:47am

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but sara...how do u know for sure that it's accidental?
and how many "accidents" would you allow your significant other to have?

Barfee · May 10, 2006, 2:47am

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get what? :-s

AnGeL_EyEs · May 10, 2006, 2:48am

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yea i dont want to put orpheus on trial either. i’m just talking about the situation in general.

AnGeL_EyEs · May 10, 2006, 2:50am

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exactly^

Sara516 · May 10, 2006, 2:53am

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AE, honestly.. I wud be really really really pissed.. n i'd feel betrayed... i mean technically i wudnt consider it cheating, but if it really happens, you knever know how ull feel.. I just know i'd feel that way coz I am xtremely sensitive..

But what CAN you do? Page him every five minutes? Go with him to work? call him for every five minutes he's latecoming home? If you dont trust ur SO then thas seems like no relationship to me at all..

I do believe in repenting and redeeming onesself.. if, God forbid, he made a mistake and vowed to never do it again, n was doing well in all other areas of marriage, I wudnt wnat to even know about it.. IF it was a one time thing.. again this is all theory, i know in reality it would probably be different :(

AnGeL_EyEs · May 10, 2006, 2:54am

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im like that 2...except im not annoying:p