My little dumpling no one attacked men in general, it was only against cheaters who you with others seem to be defending and justifying for some odd reason.
Why did this thread turn in to a battle ground where the one on the saudi man getting castrated didn’t? Cos everyone condemned the guys wrong behaviour in the other thread and rightly so. Here we have justifications coming in.
That is main reason these cheap ppl get marry from pakistan bcos the girls over here know them exactly and in some cases vice versa.
he got married to a girl in pakistan and even has a kid from her....but hasnt called her over yet. he didnt even bother to go and see his kid.
and i already knew his a twit......but recently i have found out for definate that he is cheating on his wife.....with many girls.....
just wanted to know why do guys do this? if ur going to sleep around like a cheap idiot, then why marry another girl and ruin her life? i feel sorry for this girl and im sure she doesnt even know. why do these stupid guys do this? they make me sick....
ive seen so many cases of guys marrying girls from pakistan....but then sleeping around with other girls over here (either past girlfriends or new ones or any cheap slut they can find). they treat the girls so bad.....just cuz they're from another country and are helpless to some extent (if they dont have families here).....i just hate these guys.....
There is nothing to be glorified when it comes to cheating. It’s a cowardly thing to do and there’s nothing remotely ‘manly’ about it. To say all men cheat is also a huge insult to men. Thank God not all men cheat, but those who do, well it’s sick to say the least. They don’t respect themselves, nor their women.
Bottom line is, if you want to cheat, have enough decency and respect for your partner and divorce them. Then go sleep with whoever you want.
Let me just add that AIDS is spreading big time in Pakistan and India thanks to people who cheat and then spread the disease to their wives (and children) back home. That’s really nothing to be proud of.
however Id like to rephrase this...ALL men cheat IF given the opportunity....and also..
the one's that dont cheat....either werent given the opportunity OR they never put themselves in such a situation where they would end up cheating (ie being alone with a woman).
Let's say a man needs 40 units of widgets called sex every month. Initially, it's not a problem for the wife. But once children are in the picture-- and throw in sloth, familiarity, weight gain and boredom-- the freuency takes a dive. Now, she can only provide 25 units, cuz all of a sudden, she has lost the sex drive, her hormones have been acting up, she's been having recurring headaches, and nowadays, she is staring into the ceiling while he is at it, etc.
Frustrated, the man looks elsewhere for the remaining 25 widgets. Not all men, but a good number of men.
You mean 15 rite? (25 + 15 = 40) :o
Anyway, the whole "needs" thing , yeah men have need,s but they also have a brain and a heart (yes, really!!), so to justify cheating becoz of "needs", that's such a bullsh*t argument.. Its bascally saying men are slaves to their desires, they have no brains, self confidence or anything.. And u guys say we women generalize men and dont respect them :p
Anyway, the whole "needs" thing , yeah men have need,s but they also have a brain and a heart (yes, really!!), so to justify cheating becoz of "needs", that's such a bullsh*t argument.. Its bascally saying men are slaves to their desires, they have no brains, self confidence or anything.. And u guys say we women generalize men and dont respect them :p
well they dont.....:D
jk...but seriously dope is right..he said "a good number of men" so he isnt really generalizing. Men (some) do have needs so if their needs arent met they look elsewhere...it's a shame but true.
Give men some credit. Not all of them are into cheating, even IF they were given the opportunity and found themselves alone with a woman and were able to cheat, given the opportunity. Not everybody would go ahead and cheat.
oh also…u have to read both parts of my post not just the first half and think that i have a low opinion about men. I said there are some men that dont put themselves in such a situation
Give men some credit. Not all of them are into cheating, even IF they were given the opportunity and found themselves alone with a woman and were able to cheat, given the opportunity. Not everybody would go ahead and cheat.
perhaps not physically. but lusting is bad enough. Heard of "zina of the eyes" it's all adultry in Islam.
Anyway eventually it would lead to cheating....if the guy put himself in that situation over and over again...I agree with Danial...It's all about OPPORTUNITY!
a remark: from what i've seen in both india and pak it seems the more rich desi are, the less good looking they are sigh
I remember typing this but I donno where my posts are disappearing.. Paris ton noor'ji, according to you, Pakistanis overall are better looking than Indians - right or wrong? and, which is a better to place to live - India or Pakistan since you have been to both places... You may PM me if news is not good for Pakistan :D