Which negates Sara’s earlier theory “…most likely he was “urged” into it by his (likely) paindu momma whos taught him to disrespect wmen like tht..”. The suckers turn into cheaters cos of man-whore fathers. Well atleast we can stop blaming the mothers for every assholistic act their sons commit.
Thats just with a few bad men you encountered.. it is not true for all the men.. Girls cheat big time too.. the thing is that they can hide it well.. Here in the US, the girls usually have bfs even after they get married.. Most of the gori girls I know like to sleep with many partners.. At my workplace, there is a poor Indian chap who got married to a gori girl 1 year back and has a kid with her. After having kid she started spreading her wings and dating guys despite being married and usually they dont sleep together but he cant divorce her cuz of the pressure of bad-nami back home in India and his parents are insisting him to stay married.. I would say, the situation in Pakistan is still much better.. Thats the reason I usually dont date ABCDs.. when I feel like, I would go to Pakistan and get married maybe.
Your posts are always full of "what it should be like" and" what's the right thing to do.
My posts are are always replete with "the ground reality, " which i state without any prejudice or passion.
I dont espouse the idea of cheating. It's repulsive to me. So, yes, i agree with you that it is detrimental for the children having an adulterous parent.
Saimanyc' post should shed some light. She pretty much said the same things i have, except you are not arguing with her because she is a woman.
Women = illogical :D
no i think reality is that men cheat because of many other reasons (not "needs" that arent being satisfied by a wife)
they have the opportunity to (they are very goodlooking, and are hoarded by women throwing themselves at them..)
and if they think they can get away with it (they are rich or powerful, have a timid wife, a culture that puts pardah over men's deeds and dismisses it as "oh its the nature of the beast")
they grow up with the wrong role models (like a dad who cheated and a mom who did nothing about it)
because if its just about needs then both men and women have them.
wow hold on ladybug. you with the others (in the posts above) are going full force on attacking all men, i m just trying to figure out how all men are being labeled for one mans mistake.