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Not true.
There are many honest men who have self respect and do not cheat despite having oppurtunity.
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There are many honest men who have self respect and do not cheat despite having oppurtunity.
i agree.
men cheat for many different reasons. ego boost being one of them...
a relationship thats based on mutual respect has no room for cheating even though both partners may have the opportunity to.
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I saw more of this when we lived in UK, but I'm sure it exists in the US and Canada as well - men would marry a girl in Pak, just leave her there, and carry on with the girlfriend/wife he had in the UK.
These men are spineless in more ways than one - first for not having the courage to stand up to their families to say that they want to marry/are married to someone they love, secondly for succumbing to the pressure to marry mommy's choice, and finally for never having the you know what to tell the women about each other, or at the very least treat them equitably.
My husband and I went to visit a cousin (suprise visit) and to OUR suprise, a gori answered the door. I was shocked, because I attended his wedding in pak to a cousin. Turns out that he was married to her first, they had a child, and kept "promising" to tell the family about her. After getting to know her, we ended up telling her the truth, because it was obvious that he was never going to.
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Tauba ker larki, tauba ker
Because a guy's upbringing certainly had a role in how he treats the women in his life dont ya think? If he treats his wife like shiit, like grlz are just sex objects, cheats on his wife, beats/emotionally abuses her, he must haev learned it from his parents, from his dad tha its okay to treat em like tht n from his mom that a "good woman" takes that kind of crap
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I would call his wife or get a message out there that he is cheating-
pcg - i sometimes feel you are my twin...
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Not necessarily. Same members of a family turn out to be quite different from each other. Good parents sometimes have bad kids and vice versa. So stop blaming someone, u dunno.
And men who leave their families and live abroad like pimps are ***************( cannot be described on this froum)
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^ Ur rite, parents, kids, siblings can turn out totally different.. but in general, upbringing DOES have a part in how a man will view n treat women
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Oye the title of this thread should be 'Why are women such sluts' as in the case presented by Impulse only one man was sleeping around with many women.
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o my, does his wife knows about all this? 
i think he got married in Pak due to the pressure of his parents and when he came to the U.S, he got married to a citizen here to get a green card and just coz hes a frustrated paki, hes sleeping around with other gals. This could be the case, u know there are laws against guys like that who cheat on their wives. Is the dude rich?
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Ashtray has a point.
If women would say NO to anyone who wants to get into their pants without a marriage, problem will be solved.
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A guy we know in our community is cheating on his wife. She is here and have 3 three kids with him. They are married atleast for 10 yrs. It seems like that everyone beside his wife knows about his affair. He recently bought a car for his girlfriend and pays her rent/credit card bills.
I don't know if his wife is simple or stupid because the guy have this girlfriend for a long time and wife does not seem to acknowledge that they have any problem.
Its amazing that most of the guys find the women who are willing to go along knowing that they will be destroying another woman's house.
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men just take advantage of innocent women + have u thought of this, maybe those chics didnt know about his marriage or his sexual intercourse with other women.
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Ashtray a woman who goes around with multiple men could be called a slut. Incase you missed it the first time around this scenario is of a man who goes around with multiple women thus making the man a slut or its male equivalent 
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men cheat for many different reasons. ego boost being one of them...
That's a myth.
Men have affairs because they have needs. These needs are sexual in nature. When these needs are not met, he looks elsewhere.
Don't buy into all these feminist BS about patriarchy and men needing to boost egos.
Hint: Maslow's hierarchy of needs.
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I don’t think it’s a justification. Because there is no way of saying that cheating or following wild sexual impulses is ok. But I think the professor was stating an observation. I think it’s very true. If you’ve ever watched Oprah you’ll know that all the cheaters said that their affair was about how the other person made them feel about themselves. They felt wanted, desirable and it was like a drug. They got an endorphin rush because they knew it was wrong and they were afraid of being found out. But that just fed the desire even more. It shows very poor moral character of the guy who is cheating on his wife in Pakistan. But it’s so common unfortunately. Just think of all the Indian men going to brothels and bringing back AIDS to their wives.
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Ah the age old mystery. ...as the saying goes 'Women need a reason to cheat, men just need a place'.
My condolences to the wife for having A LOSER for a husband.
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Don't buy into all these feminist BS about patriarchy and men needing to boost egos.
Hint: Maslow's hierarchy of needs.
what needs does the man have that a wife cannot satisfy? (from maslows hierarchy) please be specific. lets tackle this once and for all.
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C'on shweets, you are smart. Figure it out. Okay, let me make it easier.
Let's say a man needs 40 units of widgets called sex every month. Initially, it's not a problem for the wife. But once children are in the picture-- and throw in sloth, familiarity, weight gain and boredom-- the freuency takes a dive. Now, she can only provide 25 units, cuz all of a sudden, she has lost the sex drive, her hormones have been acting up, she's been having recurring headaches, and nowadays, she is staring into the ceiling while he is at it, etc.
Frustrated, the man looks elsewhere for the remaining 25 widgets. Not all men, but a good number of men.
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desi men are unnattractive and insecure, I can see why they'd need to cheat on their wives