Med student I know through a friend. Wears hijab. Very common indistinguishable desi face. Lives with a few roommates -- all women and working healthcare related fields. Knows a pakistani doctor at the hospital she is doing her rotation. Pakistani guy--very nice, soft spoken and extremely helpful. He brags to her constantly about how proud he is of his newborn son.
Fast forward a few months.
She is in her kitchen washing dishes without hijab. She hears a man's voice from her slutty roommate's room. Soon, a man appears, the same soft spoken pakistani doctor. She freezes, and he pauses. But he doesnt recognize her, (at least pretends to not recognize) since she doesnt have her hijab on.
Reminder: The sin of not being able to treat all wives equally is less sinful than the sin of committing adultery. I think the onus is on women for putting pressure on the men to not take more than one wife.
Let Allah (swt) decide whether or not he was equitable in his dealings with his wife.
The following logic is wrong because you are playing God:
:queen: → you cannot take more than one wife because you are biased and wont treat us fairly.
do u really think guys thinK like that. Dudette its their hormones..they can't help it! Let them be and build enuff power in urself that ur man would never wants to cheat on u or leave u and I think it is possible. If my parents can do it and other parents that I know then I don't think we can be any lesser or different than them.
he got married to a girl in pakistan and even has a kid from her....but hasnt called her over yet. he didnt even bother to go and see his kid.
and i already knew his a twit......but recently i have found out for definate that he is cheating on his wife.....with many girls.....
just wanted to know why do guys do this? if ur going to sleep around like a cheap idiot, then why marry another girl and ruin her life? i feel sorry for this girl and im sure she doesnt even know. why do these stupid guys do this? they make me sick....
ive seen so many cases of guys marrying girls from pakistan....but then sleeping around with other girls over here (either past girlfriends or new ones or any cheap slut they can find). they treat the girls so bad.....just cuz they're from another country and are helpless to some extent (if they dont have families here).....i just hate these guys.....
he got married to a girl in pakistan and even has a kid from her....but hasnt called her over yet. he didnt even bother to go and see his kid.
and i already knew his a twit......but recently i have found out for definate that he is cheating on his wife.....with many girls.....
just wanted to know why do guys do this? if ur going to sleep around like a cheap idiot, then why marry another girl and ruin her life? i feel sorry for this girl and im sure she doesnt even know. why do these stupid guys do this? they make me sick....
ive seen so many cases of guys marrying girls from pakistan....but then sleeping around with other girls over here (either past girlfriends or new ones or any cheap slut they can find). they treat the girls so bad.....just cuz they're from another country and are helpless to some extent (if they dont have families here).....i just hate these guys.....
IMPulse: Is this for real or you are refering to "Hum Pardesi Ho Gaya" soap?
Actually, pehle aap eik tho shaadi karlein. Then we'll see how much strength you have for another one. Cheating is the easy way out.
Haha! I love this comment ladies make about how men should treat women equally. My experience and observation is that women hate equality. The want the balance to be tipped in their sides.
Longing, fantasizing is not considered a sin. According to Islam, a sin is not a sin until it is committed. Even prophets felt the power of temptation.
men cheat...its a fact...and we women need to recognise it...the only man who will not cheat is one who is sure of himself that he does not need the ego boost of chasing after ***** in a skirt.
I hate how so many women idolise their husbands as if they are so perfect, when the world knows how imperfect they are.
