Cheap or Liberated? Desi or Society?

[JazzyJazz]

Re: Cheap or Liberated? Desi or Society?

@Reha

Does a non-desi man look at a woman who is promiscuous and forget about her past because his is just as colorful? What is promiscuous? Or does he think “this is not the woman I want to be the mother of my children”? My question is, do non-desies ignore these things completely or is there SOME double standard STILL there?

While there may be some double standards, non-desis are able to over look this stuff and don’t focus to much on stuff like this. I have non-desi friends who are religious and believe in abstinence but they have partners who’ve slept around and it doesn’t bother them because they say they focus on the person and what the future could be, not what happened in the past.

@Iconoclast

So a non-desi man wont mind if a women had few hookups in the past. A desi man will mind that a lot. On the other hand a desi women despite the previous relationships of a man will accept him if he is otherwise a suitable match.

I know dozens of desi women who would never accept a man who has had a few hookups and if they do, they don’t accept him in their heart, they agree to marry him because of outside pressure. Thank God my hubby told me he respected women and would never sleep around and expect this double standard.