Cheap or Liberated? Desi or Society?

[Iconoclast]

Re: Cheap or Liberated? Desi or Society?

@Reha

I was having a conversation with a friend and their viewpoint was that DESI people are FAR more stereotypical than NON-DESI. I do agree with this.

However, they went so far as to say there is no gender bias or double standard in non-desi societies and it ONLY exists among DESI people. I disagree with this because I do not know many non-desies that would ignore a promiscuous woman’s past and take her home to mama.

Just a few observations.

*Non-desi men & women are both expected to have had sex before marraige many times, so yes, it is less of an issue with them. So a non-desi man wont mind if a women had few hookups in the past. A desi man will mind that a lot. On the other hand a desi women despite the previous relationships of a man will accept him if he is otherwise a suitable match. The double standard id due to attitude of not only men but desi women as well.
*Women are more tolerant of men’s affair than the other way around, in both desi and non-desi culture.