Re: Cheap or Liberated? Desi or Society?
Read carefully. I said, it is delusional to think that EVERY women wants a ‘non-loser’ because exceptions exist. We are not species that run on instinct only and therefore latch onto alpha males.
And meet me. No, I would not say yes to him or any other celebrity or stud whose looks/attributes I admire even if he turns into a muslim and wants me to marry him (Unless I lived a similarly promiscuous lifestyle before deciding to mend my ways). Good thing you qualified your statement by using ‘probably’ rather than ‘surely’ or I would have had to type ‘delusional’ again. 
Yes, men and women ARE different. I’m not denying that neither will I deny it ever. Except for the cost of pregnancy (that’s where biology wins), the cost of social stigma IS in our hands. Having different moral standards for the genders is WRONG.
I’m not trying to fight the norm and I know that the consequences of this norm will and do affect me one way or another, but that is not in my hands.
I know I can’t change it but it does not mean I have to accept it as right. And I won’t.