Cheap or Liberated? Desi or Society?

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Re: Cheap or Liberated? Desi or Society?

@princessjojo

I personally am very defiant of norms. I don’t care about traditional expectations of the male and female. I don’t care whether men are programmed to sow their seed or whether women are programmed to mate with the man who has the best attributes on display. Evolutionary theories and what not don’t justify different moral standards for men and women.

So PERSONALLY, if I call the women is scenario A liberated, I would do the same for the man. If I call her loose, I would hold the same opinion of the man.

As far as the majority of the world is concerned, yep they have double standards. Desi or non-desi, the same ideas exist. HOWEVER, desis fall on the extreme end of the spectrum.

Delusional.

Oh? So every woman wants a loser instead? Face it, if George Clooney “renounced his ways” and converted to Islam (if that matters to you) and proposed to you, you would probably say yes. I don’t know how old you are so pick the appropriate celebrity lol.

And yes Desis are more extreme. But men and women ARE different, like it or not. You’re always going to be treated differently. Like I said, women have to deal with this negative stigma but they also have the power to turn men into putty should they wish to. It goes both ways. For a woman to sleep around is EASIER. That’s why it’s frowned upon so much. The average man simply does not have the opportunity to sleep with that many women. I wonder how many guys, if they suddenly had fame and fortune thrust upon them, could resist hundreds of women throwing themselves at them?

And you can try to fight the norm all you want but it’s women who are the most critical of other promiscuous women. Biology always wins. Getting off topic here…but yeah desis are more extreme but it’s a more conservative society too.

By the way Reha, the person who said that there is no double standard in western societies, were they desi or white?