Re: Changing for marriage
its hard to compromise sometimes, and go against your own will. it can be little things or major things like where to live, how many kids to have etc.. for example, i know a couple where the wife doesn’t want to move out of the city but the husband really wants to as it’s too expensive. they fight 24/7 because of this issue, he complains he cannot afford the lifestyle in the city whereas she is not willing to relocate ever. for me, so far the major issue has been that my husband really wants to have children so i guess this is where i have to compromise although i don’t feel ready for such a responsibility. so there are many instances where you might not agree with your spouse or have different things planned but you have to meet at a middle ground somewhere and balance it out. even if your views in general are similar, there are still many issues that arise after marriage. if both parties compromise, things can work out smoothly.