I’m very happy that everything worked out so well for you.
I’m a divorcee too, I don’t have much to add to this discussion. I’ve got a cousin who is divorced with children and some years ago she remarried again. When I was a very little girl, my mamoo divorced and his former wife is happily remarried now. I have another two three divorced cousins and some of them are remarried too.
It’s mixed. Some divorcees are lucky enough to find someone else, others aren’t. I agree though that it’s more difficult for females, they mostly do get the blame, even when it wasn’t their fault. There still are many people who have a problem with divorcees. Unless the female lives in the west, then she can get most rishtay from Pakistan, because of her western passport. The question is, is it worth it to marry someone like that, who doesn’t really want you, but only your passport? Great choice, isn’t it? First husband chooses you because of your looks, then you have a second chance for marriage and most rishtay are from Pakistan, mainly because of your western passport. Who likes you for the kind of person you are… I think it’s not meant to be for some people. It would be nice though to know what it’s like to have a husband you love and to know what a loving relationship is like. But that’s life. Everyone has something he or she lacks in life.
