Chances of getting married again

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^^ you want me to divorce an existing one?

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^hahah - wow you guys are writing good original jokes here

keep it up! lol

I’m very happy that everything worked out so well for you. :slight_smile:

I’m a divorcee too, I don’t have much to add to this discussion. I’ve got a cousin who is divorced with children and some years ago she remarried again. When I was a very little girl, my mamoo divorced and his former wife is happily remarried now. I have another two three divorced cousins and some of them are remarried too.

It’s mixed. Some divorcees are lucky enough to find someone else, others aren’t. I agree though that it’s more difficult for females, they mostly do get the blame, even when it wasn’t their fault. There still are many people who have a problem with divorcees. Unless the female lives in the west, then she can get most rishtay from Pakistan, because of her western passport. The question is, is it worth it to marry someone like that, who doesn’t really want you, but only your passport? Great choice, isn’t it? First husband chooses you because of your looks, then you have a second chance for marriage and most rishtay are from Pakistan, mainly because of your western passport. Who likes you for the kind of person you are… I think it’s not meant to be for some people. It would be nice though to know what it’s like to have a husband you love and to know what a loving relationship is like. But that’s life. Everyone has something he or she lacks in life.

Chicken Biryani...divorced women aren't 'worth' your attention? Get a grip. What about those women who have a genuine reason to get divorced eg. domestic abuse or threats by the husband that he will re-marry.

Cant say anything about real jokes though, but i don't mind marrying a divorced girl.

Anokhi you havnt read the thread through hai na ? please read post 41 in the same thread .. all answers are there … no one said genuine cases of divorce , where a person has been wronged are to be blamed :smack:

Why should a person who has suffered and being wronged be blamed , the oppressor is to be blamed not the victim !

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What are the chances a divorced woman will get married again? They are still fairly good. My parents divorced when I was 8 because my dad was physically and verbally abusive towards my mother. Since then she has continuously gotten rishtas from other divorced or widowed men and continues to get them till this day.

On the flip side, it may be a bit more difficult for younger divorced girls to remarry as a lot of desi guys don't want their first marriage to be with a divorcee. It is unfortunate they think this way, but we have a family friend....the girl is about 30 years old and divorced...she married really young like when she was 21 and got divorced 6 months later. We don't know the reasons why nor will we ask them, however, she has had trouble getting married. She has been single since her divorce, even though she is really pretty and her family is loaded. I asked her if there is "anyone" in her life and she just responded with "Desi guys will date a divorced girl, but they won't marry her." My heart goes out to her and others in that situation.

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"I asked her if there is "anyone" in her life and she just responded with "Desi guys will date a divorced girl, but they won't marry her."

lol.. and where is she from Peshawar??

I don't think men have a problem marrying a divorced woman ( Especially in the West) as long as they click with each other and are fairly open minded.. they will go for each other regardless.

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why it should be taboo, who cares about culture, only religion matters in this serious situation, and do hell wid what ppl would say about a divorced gal, its personnal.

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Well it doesnt remain personal when someone comes up on e forum and asks for an opinion. This thread was not about cursing divorced people but awfully it has been turned into one. Divorce dpeople are just normal and they live in normality. Their chances for getting married are always open. Or if they are drastic, they can be jut same for the un married ones too. Only a person themselves may be a hindrance if they dont want to.