Celibacy

[Shak]

[QUOTE]
he might hurt his wife during sex.
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So he's into whips and chains

[Jaanwar]

@Slickstar

Guys I have found out the truth. Why he doesnt want to get married is related to sex…he is scared he might hurt his wife during sex. Im not sure what he is trying to say here…

Remixed for your reading pleasure..

[InToXiCaTeD]

@Slickstar

Yeah You make a good point. Ive asked him a few times why he has chosen this path and he always says that he finds the act of sex dirty. He is attracted to girls like all other guys and he does say **he has his temptations but when he thinks about it he feels that sex is a very dirty act **and he rather stay away from it.

^ That may sound unbelievable to a lot of people but it happens. One of my very close friends had this problem. For him, love was all about mehboob ki zulfein, ankhein, hont, chaal etc. (as our urdu poets put it) and anything sexual was dirty and baigherti which he would never want to do. And this was a fully grown healthy man in his mid-twenties who was under pressure from his parents to get married. Now, he knew about the basic reproductive biology and had a vague idea about the sexual act … but poor soul just could not imagine himself indulging in the act.

The reason ??? I am not sure … but I think the way male and female plumbing is done … it puts some people off to have “playground” and “sewage” in and through same area … if you know what I mean.

EDIT : oops, forgot to add … this guy eventually got married, has a beautiful daughter now, and all ok in this department.

Apparently, he took 6 months to cunsummate his marriage, but is very happy now.

P.S - plz don’t get on my case about why we guys discuss each others’ private intimate info. We actually tricked him to get that info. out.

[snowy_winter]

Re: Celibacy

How weird can people be ??

[Jaanwar]

@InToXiCaTeD

^ That may sound unbelievable to a lot of people but it happens. One of my very close friends had this problem. For him, love was all about mehboob ki zulfein, ankhein, hont, chaal etc. (as our urdu poets put it) and anything sexual was dirty and baigherti which he would never want to do. And this was a fully grown healthy man in his mid-twenties who was under pressure from his parents to get married. Now, he knew about the basic reproductive biology and had a vague idea about the sexual act … but poor soul just could not imagine himself indulging in the act.

The reason ??? I am not sure … but I think the way male and female plumbing is done … it puts some people off to have “playground” and “sewage” in and through same area … if you know what I mean.

EDIT : oops, forgot to add … this guy eventually got married, has a beautiful daughter now, and all ok in this department.

Apparently, he took 6 months to cunsummate his marriage, but is very happy now.

P.S - plz don’t get on my case about why we guys discuss each others’ private intimate info. We actually tricked him to get that info. out.

Tox, my brother, you always make my day!

[Slickstar]

@InToXiCaTeD

^ That may sound unbelievable to a lot of people but it happens. One of my very close friends had this problem. For him, love was all about mehboob ki zulfein, ankhein, hont, chaal etc. (as our urdu poets put it) and anything sexual was dirty and baigherti which he would never want to do. And this was a fully grown healthy man in his mid-twenties who was under pressure from his parents to get married. Now, he knew about the basic reproductive biology and had a vague idea about the sexual act … but poor soul just could not imagine himself indulging in the act.

The reason ??? I am not sure … but I think the way male and female plumbing is done … it puts some people off to have “playground” and “sewage” in and through same area … if you know what I mean.

EDIT : oops, forgot to add … this guy eventually got married, has a beautiful daughter now, and all ok in this department.

Apparently, he took 6 months to cunsummate his marriage, but is very happy now.

P.S - plz don’t get on my case about why we guys discuss each others’ private intimate info. We actually tricked him to get that info. out.

pfft. Be ashamed of yourself. Such sensitive issues should never be in the public domain.

[InToXiCaTeD]

@Jaanwar

Tox, my brother, you always make my day!

I thought that was not funny.

@Slickstar

pfft. Be ashamed of yourself. Such sensitive issues should never be in the public domain.

u r not serious, right?

[Jaanwar]

pfft. Be ashamed of yourself. Such sensitive issues should never be in the public domain.

Woah thats perfect coming from you mate!

[Slickstar]

Re: Celibacy

haha

[fairywings85]

Guys I have found out the truth. Why he doesnt want to get married is related to sex....he is scared he might hurt his wife during sex. Im not sure what he is trying to say here......

thats his reason for not getting married..he doesnt want to have sex...cos he might hurt his wife...seriously?

sex is dirty when it is without love..but in love and in marriage what is the issue? im not saying rip ur clothes off on the first night...but when u marry someone u will have to (if u want children)..albeit in a a months time of 2 years down the line...

[fairywings85]

pfft. Be ashamed of yourself. Such sensitive issues should never be in the public domain.

^ WTF!>!>!>?!?!

[MIAinVA]

Re: Celibacy

Are we allowed to use the word "moron" over here on GS?

[McPendo]

Re: Celibacy

lmao even the sufis got married, its Sunnat! The prophet had 9 wives come on!

[NJMasti]

@McPendo

lmao even the sufis got married, its Sunnat! The prophet had 9 wives come on!

9? how did we come down to 4 then?

[MIAinVA]

Re: Celibacy

McPendo.... I read about 12.... 9 kaisay ho gayeen? We were even taught the names of 12 azwaaj-e-muttahiraat in school in Isalmiat class.

[MIAinVA]

@NJMasti

9? how did we come down to 4 then?

4 is mentioned in the Quran.

[Sarsaparilla]

Re: Celibacy

A cooperative and enthusiastic wife will change the situation in a few nights. It is hardly a problem.