Celibacy

I know this guy who practises Celibacy and is being forced to get married. Now, he has told his wife to be about it, the in laws and his parents. Anyways, everyone thinks he will snap out of it on the wedding night but I doubt it because he has tested himself by sleeping with girls and he is so strong minded that he ended up doing nothing. He has told his parents that he is not going to do anything and this marriage will just ruin the girls life but both parties are determined to get this wedding going.

What should he do?

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Troll

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pyari, this isnt a troll story.

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y r all of ur friends sex deprived? jst wondering

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Kali, this guy isnt sex deprived. He has made a lifestyle choice and his parents are forcing him to change. Dont you think its wrong? His parents are emotionally blackmailing him by saying that all Muslim MUST get married etc etc

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Tell him to elope - leave family and home for a while. he can stay with you for few months.. isnt??? Wont you do such a small favor for your friend ?? :@:

yeah same thing sex deprived by choice. anyway there is no such rule that all muslims MUST get married! his parents really dont knw much about muslims i guess?

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He should not let them force him and destroy the girl;s life. What is the girl's reaction to all of this?

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The guy is very successful. He has money, is charismatic, and influential within the political spheres of state bureaucracy. So with this she also believes that her life is set if she gets married to him and she also thinks she can set him straight after the wedding.

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What Muslim practices celibacy? Is he planning on joining the Catholic Church and becoming a priest?

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practicing celibacy before marriage for whatever reasons makes sense. But after … :confused:

A straight virgin man always has hope to get lucky some day.

A non-virgin always has hope to get more some day. :slight_smile:

but a healthy normal man doesn’t want it at all ??? … :konfused:

That feeling would be the end of life for me … :hehe:

Yeah You make a good point. Ive asked him a few times why he has chosen this path and he always says that he finds the act of sex dirty. He is attracted to girls like all other guys and he does say he has his temptations but when he thinks about it he feels that sex is a very dirty act and he rather stay away from it.

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He is a dumbass. Your friend if is a muslim is not following his religious obligation. For us men we are sanctioned to spread our seed and sleep with a woman (once married). Tell the dumbass to get his head on straight.

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Celibacy? HA!

C’mon. He’s gay. Nice coverup though. :hoonh:

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The only logical explanation for this behavior can be that he is a flaming homosexual and making chit up to get out of the wedding situation.

I would recommend you reconsider who you hangout with, unless, of course.

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guys he isnt a homosexual. If he was he would have told me because I have nothing against homosexuals. Also today his parents asked him to see a doctor and get a shrink evaluation. His parents are really worried about him...

Ill probably see him later today after he meets his wife to be...

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Either gay or crazy. Take your pick.

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I'd go with option C - troll.

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if he practices celibacy then why did he tested himself by sleeping with girls?

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gift him some good stuff on Kamal Suthra.

may be that will work