Celibacy

Lifestyle Relationships
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There are far more obvious trolls on the forum. I have initiated a serious thread here and id appreciate a light hearted replies in relation to the topic at hand. My posting history does not in any way suggest trolling and id appreciate if you stop accusing me of such childish behavior.

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Dude, if you seriously read the 'topic at hand', you'd laugh. Having said that, I don't despise you in any way. You make people laugh, thats a very handy skill my brother.

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lol thanks for the compliment but this isnt a laughing matter at all. Becharah my friend is sexually frustrated. I dont know, maybe I should send him to a pro to sort him out.

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I think your friend is confused about his sexuality and doesnt really know what he wants right now.

Or maybe he hasnt met the right woman that can get him all hot and bothered.

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Not having sex before marriage is one thing (and he’d be right if this were the case), but for life?!! :nono: He’s got issues IMO.

What is the girl’s opinion? If shes sane she would obviously decline the marriage and hence ‘both parties’ cannot FORCE two ADULTS to marry.

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gay (likely) or crazy

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May be he's had a bad experience that has led him to believe sex is dirty. I mean may be abuse of some kind? On the other hand, our culture is a bit wierd in that before you get married everything to do with sex is out of bounds, and then suddenly after marriage your supposed to get down to it straight away.
He should see a psychiatrist. quick time.

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sex...dirty??? its how we are all born? its not dirty unless u make it dirty...if it is done after marriage out of love...then it is a beautiful thing!! i think this guy is an idiot..

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but are u sure he’s straight tho? :konfused:

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LOL Slickstar you totally act like a troll on here!I think you're going to use the answers to prove some point, but Im not exactly sure what it is.

But i'll bite.. I think long-term celibacy for guys is unnatural. They end up channeling their desires in weird way...like they start becoming addicted to porn, or they start liking children, become gay or become more violent. Or they become control freaks like obsessive about diet, religion, etc.

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Good point! I say sex is beautiful, period. Lets not attach so many conditions to it.

As his holiness Ron Jeremy said, "sex is beautiful, love is painful".

Hellow fellow insomniacs
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is he gay?

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Some people just like to be different.

Have you seen families where 3 out of 4 kids have graduate degrees, get married, have kids but this 4th one wants to be unique and decides to spend their time in Spain with bulls. Yeah?

I think this is something like that.

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^ so you think he doesn't want to have sex because he wants to be with bulls? Thats a bold assumption I'd say.

Your Ring!
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:smack:

No he just wants to be different. It’s the latest trend.

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^ well that would be over simplification of a much deeper problem, and based on an assumption.

I say he's a homo.

Being killed for marrying a christian man and leaving Islam
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And that you know for sure :emmy:???

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LMAO! Brother Jaanwar, for quoting the Holiness you have earned yourself the right to frollick in the heavens. That quote in life 1 made my day! :D

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There could be another reason as well. Maybe your friend tried sex previously, but found out he couldn't do it due to some maladie or something.

Someone rightly said, celibacy AFTER marriage would be such a killjoy for anyone !!

ARZ kerty hun !!!!
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Guys I have found out the truth. Why he doesnt want to get married is related to sex....he is scared he might hurt his wife during sex. Im not sure what he is trying to say here......