Thanks for the input. I appreciate the candidness and honesty.
whether he likes you or not shouldnt be an issue... especially since his touch made you uncomfortable.
However, all in all the entire situation seems preplanned and not many friends that have met after such a long time go for walks on the beach.
My suggestion... he sounds creepy. Meet him public places if you must.
He was hitting on you.
^^ agree with both of them
Avoid him, he seems to want to get a little too comfy with u, u should have told him straight up that u didnt feel comfortable. what is he gonna try next time, i kissed u cus i didnt want ur lips to get cold from the wind 
^^ hey.. that’s a great line!!
Soooo what? Munmun…you are a grown up now. all this is conventional wisdom. Enjoy yourself…have fun…use discretion…that is what dating is about. jeez louise..
Is he cute? ;)
Munni babez, he was totally hitting on you. ;) You ain't no kiddo who hasn't gone to the beach before. And his excuse " i didn't want you to fall" was pretty lame :p
Everyone's been pretty quick in pointing out that the guy was hitting on Munni, but Munni, it sounds like you enjoyed it. I'm sorry if I'm wrong, but when you say that you pursued the hand holding later, ie. you asked him why he held your hand earlier, the fact that you asked him this indicates that you had some interest.
If one was truly creeped out or didn't like it, one would have dropped the subject, never brought it up with the guy and gone home without any future plans of meeting.
Let me know if I'm ass wrong.
Bottom line is are you interested? If not then you probably should avoid him or at least make it clear that you're not interested.
lemme take out my magic ball.....
ahemmm, I see that you both are interested in each other...:-)
what shinoo said, is he cute? ;)
ShiNoo, I dun see him in dat way. uffh
Sehar, actually I could have fallen, cause it was pretty dizzying had I kept looking down, but there was no reason for me to continue looking down.
aahmed, I didnt include other parts of the conversation, but I think I made it very clear to him that I am not interested. Made it clear two years ago, and again yesterday.
Mr Xtreme, yep, I think I made it clear, but you just neva know wid guys. (The same can be said for girls too sometimes.)sigh
Currupt, not at all. A very nice guy apart from the hand holding thing. smile
Xara, umm, same tin I said to shinoo pinoo. grin
The purpose of this post was to see if I was taking it wrong, the hand issue. I took it as a sign that he might like me, and its pretty much been confirmed here that it was probably the case. Sometimes I'm told I over-analyze things, so its good to get other peoples perspectives. Just recently I thought someone liked me, and then it was made very clear that the person didnt. I'm not always correct in my assessment.
Thanks. smile
he likes u and u know it ! but if u dont like him y r u going on moonlit walks on the beach?? :nono: not a good idea Munni
He didnt hold my hand until we got to the beach. So no I wasnt aware that he likes me actually. You wouldnt think that after two years someone would still show some interest. Atleast I wouldnt. Family still tells me I can be very naive sometimes, and lacking in common sense. sigh
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Currupt, not at all. A very nice guy apart from the hand holding thing. smile
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that's not fair for the nice dude.. :--/
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that's not fair for the nice dude.. :--/
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Believe you me, hes way better off with someone else. smile
aww he likes u ;)
Munni, I'm a little confused here.
I know its not a big deal or anything, but Im just wondering if he possibly likes me.
aahmed, I didnt include other parts of the conversation, but I think I made it very clear to him that I am not interested. Made it clear two years ago, and again yesterday.
That's quite a bit contradiction there. How could you be wondering if he likes you or not if you'd just made it clear to him you're not interested twice already? Obviously you don't make that clear to every guy you meet. There must have been some sort of moments or conversation that took place which led you to make it clear.
Secondly, what the heck are you doing with him going out on dinner and walking on the beach if you're not interested? Please, spare me and think of something other than "because I just want to be friends".
Hey what happened to your sixth sense? what does it tell u? being a girl, arent u supposed to have figured out what's on his mind by now? :D j/k
I would say give him the benefit of doubt just this once...who know,s you probably ARE over analyzing things..just keep this incident in mind the next time u meet him..ok maybe that was redundant..as if you are going to let go of this issue anytime soon hehe
:-)