Re: Caught my husband red handed
This. Other issues you have with his family and what-not are separate.
You need to tread with care. Be there for him. You don’t need to get confrontational or angry, he really doesn’t need that and you may push him to crave that high. I don’t want to trivialise this but IMO (as long as this isn’t causing financial problems and/or he’s not in danger getting it) there are much worse addictions i.e. alcoholism.
You can only find out why he is doing this and the level of addiction is by having a heart to heart with him. Then you can work on getting over this together. You may find he has some serious worries and to me, addressing those and working through them will be the real struggle.