If your ex partner got in touch with you and said that they wanted to get back together…
Even though you know that they are dating someone else and you still have strong feelings for them?
Would you get back with them because you feel so strongly for them or tell them to go away as they’re only messing with your head because they already have a partner?
from get back together u mean talk/meet stuff.. or like a REAL relationship?
i will still talk/meet them :-) person's past REALLY DOESNT go away.. regardless how u look at it .. its better if u accept your past, and live with it .. thats life
I have to disagree with everyone, if my feelings were very strong, and there was a chance of the relationship being successful a second time, then yes i would consider meeting up. It would also depend upon whether I thought his feelings were as strong as mine. He would of course have to break up with the girl he was seeing before i would even contemplate a second attempt at the relationship.
Are you single or with someone that he’s asking to get back wiht u ? Coz i’ve heard that it happens, once ure with someone, everyone will start lookin at you like “hey i kinad like u.. i have a crush on you” etc etc..
Ignore the advances. Politely answer the phone calls but firmly tell her that she had her chance and now you are with someone else. However, if she'd like to take you on a nice vacation, then she should go ahead with the arrangements. Also, if she just wants a 'physical relationship', tell her when is a good time for her to drop by.
I'm single. He was my first and possibly last boyfriend. It was quite serious and then things just went from bad to worse. I do want to be with him so much BUT my mind is telling not to as I've seen sides to him that I don't like.
I want to move on but he's constantly in my face reminding me of what we had....Should I tell him I don't feel anything?
two things....
initial gut response is to say "No thank you. Been there, done that."
secondary reflex if you really care about the person is to wonder, "What if they really have changed and learned a lesson?"
I think the scenario you describe highlights 2 things in particular: 1)How dating is a load of poo-poo and doesn't work, since there is no real lasting commitment, as is with marriage...Majority of people are in it for one thing...
2)How important it is to choose a good life partner, one whom you will share the rest of this life and the next with...
Personally to me, dating seems to be a temporary solution for one to fulfil whatever objective they may have-eg. companionship, or physical intimacy!
Just save it for marriage, and when u do decide 2 get married-select your partners very carefully! (IMHO)