Re: Case of Abuse or Its Just Her Duty?
I would have to agree with Muzna here : Communication is the key in ALL relationships. You have to make an effort to rectify a situation before blaming everyone involved. If Nabila doesnt talk to her inlaws or husband about how her responsibilities are too overwhelming, how can she say what their reaction can be? Perhaps, her inlaws dont realise waht they are doing to her. Maybe there is a need for her to speak up (gently, mind you) and remind everyone that she is finding it hard to juggle everything and hence can use someone's help.
There are plenty of ways to solve a domestic issue like this before declaring war.
On a side note, my sis-in-law lives in a join family system. She takes care of two young kids, does all the housework and manages a private clinic in the evenings. Recently she has just expanded her clinic to include some more equipment. I am sure she might have to talk it out with her inlaws as well before being able to accomplish this but she does it and I dont know how she handles it. And I am hecka proud of her!