Which would you guys prefer , considering she has invested a lot in her career ; and what would your reasons be for either choice ?
Girls what would you want ? Considering U have a great career going ! Would you quit it when U tied the knot or not ?
Me : I’d Quit ! Even though I’d be giving up a fruitful career I believe a family & kids come first…I don’t want my kids being brought up by a nanny ! I wanna be there when they first crawl or sit or take their first steps or say their first word …
I worked until I had my first child. I've been home since then, loving every bit of it, but may return to work once my little one starts going to school as well.
Hubby has ben supportive of all my decisions and it has worked out real well for us.
i left my job a yr after marriage n havn't gone back yet.at first i really enjoyed the break but then i always wanted to go back not for income sake but for my sake.kids,husband,family everything has its own value but then u as a person should do something only for u too.i feel after doing everything still u r never really appreciated n been always taken as granted but at work if u r good u get admiration,reward,promotion.but this is how i feel
Its up to the woman to decide. Husband should be willing to take responsibilty of the household with or without wife working. When wife works and makes money, she should have the major say in deciding how to spend it, however that would be selfish of her if hubby is struggling in fiances and she decided to spend her money in parlors or brand name clothing.
Support from the husband is essential. A woman who is only a homemaker has the potential to be a wonderful and effective homemaker if she gets support, encouragement, and appreciation from her husband for all she does (cleaning, cooking, watching the kids, homework, laundry, etc).
Similarly, there are women who are able to manage jobs and raising their families really well because they receive the necessary understanding and support from their spouse and families.
We are all naturally motivated to do our best job (whether its at home or in the workplace) if our efforts are appreciated and supported. I've seen people at work become demotivated about trying their best because a superior/boss is not supportive and appreciative. The same makes sense for a homemaker as well.
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