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Making something PART OF religion of Islam, which was never practiced by Mohammad or his sahaaba as the part of Islam is bid'ah and should not be done.
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this is the response I got from a scholar (I apologise for its length but if you want proof then read the following) .. oh by the way the site was www.dawateislami.net
Once you digest this I will reply to you regarding the 3 questions you Will be asked in the grave (as they do not concern this thread I will omit them for the time being)
Anchal... sorry sis, I'll do my best NOT to make this into a mud-slinging match but the following answer will hopefully also be benificial to you and maybe answer any questions you may have regarding Milad-un-nabi(saw)
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Question:
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Please give me the evidence about Eid-e-Milad-un-Nabi in the light of Quran & Ahadith.
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Answer.
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Before writing the arguments of Eid Milad-un-Nabi (Allah's Grace & Peace be upon Him), I want to clear the meaning of
Milad according to literature and shariah.
The word Milad has been derived from "viladut" which means birth. Therefore, according to Arabic language, milad is word
which signifies the place and time of birth. In the light of shariah, we means, Milad is to remember the events which took place
at the birth time of the Holy Prophet (Allah's Grace & Peace be upon Him) and we get the opportunity of narrating the seerat
of the Prophet (Allah's Grace & Peace be upon Him) on this occasion, we also present the Holy Prophet (Allah's Grace &
Peace be upon Him) gifts of durood -o- salam. We mention before the people attributes and praises of the Prophet (Allah's
Grace & Peace be upon Him).
Evidence of the Holy Quran
The Quranic verses prove that to celebrate Milad is not only a proper deed but it is also a praiseworthy.
1) Allah Almighty says in Quran:
"The peace is on Him the day when he was born and the day when he will die and the day when he will be raised alive."
(Kanzul Iman the translation of Holy Quran, Sura Al-Maryam, Verse 15)
In the above verse Allah Almighty has mentioned the complete Milad of Hazrat Yahya (Alhis Salam). And before this Allah
Almighty has mentioned the events which took place before the birth. It is the same way of celebrating birth day as ahle sunnat
adopts for the Milad of the last Prophet (Allah's Grace & Peace be upon Him) of Allah Almighty. In other words the Prophet
of Allah Almighty Hazrat Isa (Alahis Salam) celebrate his own milad.
2) As Allah Almighty says:
"And the same peace on me the day I was born and the day I will die and the day I would raised alive."
(Kanzul Iman the translation of Holy Quran, Sura Al Maryum , Verse 33)
Before this verse Allah Almighty has stated the whole story of Maryum (Allah may pleased with him) that who she got pregnant
and gave birth her great son, the Prophet of Allah Isa (Alihis Salam). Allah Almighty also mentioned the words of Isa (Alaihis
Salam) by which Isa (Alaihis Salam) praised himself. This style of narrating story is nothing but celebration of Milad of Isa
Alaihis Salam. Ahle Sunnat also narrate the story of Holy Prophet Muhammad (Allah's Grace & Peace be upon Him) in the
same style. We too narrate the events which took place before the birth and after it as Allah Almighty narrated about Yahya
and Isa (Alaihimus Salam). Therefore, a person who has eyes of justice, will obviously accept that to celebrate Milad is an
important deed which Allah Almighty has done. So it proves that the bases of Milad is found in the Holy Quran.
3) Allah Almighty says:
"And remind them of the days of the Allah."
(Kanzul Iman the translation of Holy Quran, Sura Ibrahim, Verse5)
In this verse Allah Almighty orders his prophet Musa Alahis Salam to remind his nation the days of Allah Almighty. "The days
of Allah" are those days in which great events took place or Allah Almighty bestowed his great rewards to his creature. As the
Holy Quran testifies this explanation of the days of Allah Almighty. In the Holy Quran Musa Alaihis Salam says:
"And when Musa said it his people remember Allah's favor upon you, when he delivered you from Firawn's people who used
to afflict you worsly, and slaughter your sons and let your daughters live and in it there was shown great mercy of your lord."
(Kanzul Iman the translation of Holy Quran, Sura Ibrahim , Verse 6 )
According to the Quranic verse emancipation of the nation of Musa Alaihis Salam from Firawn is a day of Allah, so the birth
day of the Holy Prophet Muhammad (Allah's Grace & Peace be upon Him) is, with any doubt, also a day of Allah, because the
Prophet Muhammad (Allah's Grace & Peace be upon Him) emancipated whole world from the darkness of ignorance and
brought them to the light of guidance. Therefore, the birthday (Milad) of the Holy Prophet (Allah's Grace & Peace be upon
Him) deserves to be celebrated then the celebration of any other event. In case we would not be grateful to Allah Almighty for
his favor, that is Muhammad (Allah's Grace & Peace be upon Him). He will punish us severely . As Allah Almighty says :
"And remember when your lord proclaimed, if you will be great full then I shall give you more and if your thankless then my
treatment is severe."
(Kanzul Iman the translation of Holy Quran, Sura Ibrahim , Verse 7 )
4) Allah Almighty says :
"Then remember the bounties of Allah and wander not in the earth spreading mischief."
(Kanzul Iman the translation of Holy Quran, Sura Araf , Verse 74 )
In the above verse Allah Almighty orders us to remember his bounties and rewards. The last Prophet of Allah Almighty
Muhammad (Allah's Grace & Peace be upon Him) is, undoubtedly, great blessing of Allah Almighty for whole mankind. Allah
Almighty himself considers the Prophet (Allah's Grace and Peace be upon him) his great favor for mankind as He says
"Undoubtedly, Allah did a great favor to the Muslims that in them from among themselves sent a messenger who recites unto
them His signs and purifies them and teaches them the book and wisdom and necessarily before that they were certainly
apparent error.
(Kanzul Iman the translation of Holy Quran, Sura Ale Imran , Verse 164)
Therefor, according to the Quranic commandments we must remember the beloved Prophet of Allah Muhammad (Allah's
Grace & Peace be upon Him) and Milad-un-Nabi is a best way of remembrance of the greatest Prophet (Allahs Grace and
Peace be upon him).
In another words Allah Almighty says:
"And publicize well the favor of your lord"
(Kanzul Iman the translation of Holy Quran, Sura Al Duha , Verse 11)
The companion of the Holy Prophet (Allahs Grace and Peace be upon him) Hazrat Abdullah Ibne Abbas (Allah is well pleased
with Him ) explained the word favors. He says here, In this verse favor signifies the prophet hood and Islam.
(Tafseer Ibne Abbas, Sure Al Duha, Page 651).
So in the light of the given explanation by the cousin of the Holy Prophet (Allah's Grace and Peace be upon him), we can say
that Allah Almighty orders us to remember Holy Prophet (Allah's Grace and Peace be upon him) in our gatherings between the
people, in our mosque between the worshiper and in our houses between our families and Milad un Nabi (Allahs Grace and
Peace be upon him), as I have written is a best way for this quranic purpose.
4) Allah Almighty orders us :
"Say you oly Allah's grace and his mercy, on it therefore let them rejoice. That is better then all their wealth."
In this verse Allah Almighty orders us to enjoy on his grace and mercy. If we see around us we find that each favor of Allah
Almighty is great mercy for us. Even our existence is also a mercy of Allah Almighty. But the greatest of Allah is the Holy
Prophet (Allah's Grace and Peace be upon him). As Allah Almighty says:
"And we sent not you but mercy for all world."
(Kanzul Iman the translation of Holy Quran, Sura Al Ambia , Verse 107)
So according the Quranic teachings it is necessary for us that ewe must be happy and pleased on the birthday of the Holy
Prophet (Allah's Grace and Peace be upon him). The one who pleases with the Holy Prophet (Allah's Grace and Peace be
upon him) is really a true follower of the Quran. And it is obvious that, in whole world Muslims celebrates Milad un Nabi
(Allah's Grace and Peace be upon him). Specially for enjoying the mercy of Allah Almighty that is the beloved prophet of Allah
Almighty (Allah's Grace and Peace be upon him)Therefore the Holy Quran itself confirms the Milad un Nabi (Allah's Grace and
Peace be upon him)
5) The gathering of Milad un Nabi (Allah's Grace and Peace be upon him) incite Muslims on saying durood and Salam ( to
pray for prophet (Allah's Grace and Peace be upon him) of blessing and peace) Allah Almighty says:
"Oh you who I believe send upon Him blessing and salute Him fully well in abundance. (Kanzul Iman the translation of Holy
Quran, Sura Al Ahzab , Verse 56)
According to the law of shariah, a thing which is desired by shariah, is exactly a like an aim of shariah. And the benifit of durood
-o- salam are so much in numbers that can not be counted. Durood -o- salam causes for the help of Allah Almighty in this
world and here after. So milad un Nabi (Allah's Grace & Peace be upon Him) is a source of fulfilling the commandments of
Allah Almighty
6) Allah Almighty says:
"And all that we narrate to you of the tidings of the messengers is for the purpose of strengthening your heart therewith."
(Kanzul Iman the translation of Holy Quran, Sura Hood, Verse 121)
This Quranic verse reveals that the wisdom of mentioning the stories and events of Prophets (Alaihis salam) was to stand fast
the heart of the last prophet (Allah's Grace and Peace be upon him). And it is obvious that we are, also today, in need of being
stand fast. We must know that how, the prophet of Allah (Allah's Grace and Peace be upon him) faced the problems of his
time so that we may face the problems of our times according to the Sunnah. Therefore Milad un Nabi (Allah's Grace and
Peace be upon him) provides us an opportunity to know about the affair of the Prophet (Allah's Grace and Peace be upon
him).
Death is only the Beginning.