cant move on and super confused

riday · July 27, 2012, 4:33pm

Re: cant move on and super confused

Paheli - There are so many things to take into consideration. His mother realises she did a mistake by getting him married. As his wife has being disrespectful in various aspects. She did spoke to me a last night. Saying i wish i cud undo and get the two of you together.. When she had turned against us after our quarrel. According to her, tht quarrel was nothing to wht both of he and his wife are going through also the wife was going out with somebody else and still continues to talk to him. She hasnt given this guy the respect and place she should have. Knowing all this, it complicates all the more for me. She was heart-broken, saying i lost my son in my arrogance had i thought once and not got him married i wud have had a loving bahu and my son with me.

With all said, I lreally adored his family to bits man.. we gelled really well. Mayb they too feel the gaps and cracks now. I m glad they do cuz i went through alot so its a fair deal.

She wants to meet me alone with his father i dont know for what. But i havent said yes to anything as off now.

I also know if 'd marry someone else eventually i wll give in if he loves me endlessly but it maybe a compromise initially but i wouldnt b able to give what i gave to his family. His sister, brother, mom’s place and memories are there to stay for good. I dont want to give a new beginning to my life with a compromise but i m trying hard to muster myself and move on.

Its hard for now and whoever turned their back are coming down and apologising.

well that says a lot!