cant move on and super confused

[moonlight786]

Re: cant move on and super confused

@redvelvet

I feel really bad for his wife. Does a parent’s illness/pressure justify toying with another person’s life? I don’t think so. His wife may not want to live with him now, but divorce is still a greater stigma for women than it is for men in our society. And **IF **she was kept in the dark about his inability to have kids, that is even more messed up. I don’t know how you could respect a person/family who would do conceal such information. I don’t support the idea of sticking it out in a miserable situation. However screwing with someone else’s life on your way to pursuing marriage with the OP…(even though the wife may want out)…I find that disturbing as well…it’s like inviting bad karma for new ventures. I could be wrong. Anyhow I hope all parties find some peace/direction.

i totally agree and that is the only reason i dont want to initialise anything at this given stage. either it b him, his mom or dad. I dont want to give any kind of vibes or ideas to their minds that i still accept their son despite all wht has happened.

Marriage is big decision if its made in haste it ends up ruining not only the two involved but also many others. I understand that therefore i m not open for discussions for now. Its his married life i m not one of those low grades who can be called as a women as in an extra marital affair types.
I absolutely believe on karma. If they take try to make it work its good for their families.

Thats all i can say, To a certain extend i too sympathize with his wife but i dont want to ignite things all the more … Just trying to keep in as much as in the box i can.