this should have been discussed well before, if you want to live with your mom after marriage, many son in law and in laws would not agree to this, but there are many who would happily agree to this some out of greed, some truely for care reasons.
considering she lives 15mintues away, its not that far even if you have to manage this.
anything you want to do it has to be agreed with in law family, as they are they one who will accuse you and your husband in the future.
moving with mum is not always easy on the hubby's mom.
I know one of my close friend, he got married to first cousin,(khala's daughter). Situation was tricky, both of them has single mums, the girl convinced the husband to move out of his family house to a new house in the same city and asked her mother to join them. and her mother has other 2 sons but she likes the daughter most.
the guys mother, who was widowed at young age, worked hard through life to support my friend and his younger brother. finally when he was able to complete MBA and had good job, married, moved out with mother in law. well this wasnt the normal scenario, as his mother was suffering from cancer and died within 1 year of his moving out.
even all the friends werent happy about it and still accuse him for his wrong actions. seems to be only thing his ear can listen was his wife's voice.
sorry for putting this into this but i guess it was relevant.
the moral of the story is, this touchy area should be discussed before you got even engaged. as your in laws already know about it, they may have thought about this already, now you can discuss with your hubby and more with in laws.
I agree. Shouldn't have gotten engaged and waited until 3 months before the wedding for such an important decision.