Re: Can't leave single mom. What to do?
Your fiance is being really unfair. Your situation is completely different from his. Maybe he is just putting this off and calming you down by saying that your mother can live with you once you have your own house. But do you honestly think his parents will be ok with this arrangement? His parents aren't happy when he casually suggested living with your mother. Why will his parents be ok with your mother living with you guys 3 years later? And Sara is right...long term plans like this never work....But as others have mentioned, please sort this out BEFORE you get married....and don't put hope over experience. If he really cared, he would move in with your mother and be receptive to your concerns.