Re: cancer stricken family member
My wonderful nani died of cancer...it ate her up. I still cannot seem to get over that...she was so small and frail when she died and you could tell she was sick of fighting it. It doesnt even seem like she is gone sometimes...just far away. Anyway, she wanted to give up but she couldnt because her children were at odds with each other. At the time, all of her kids put their differences behind them and came together. No matter what the problem was, they hugged in front of her and said sorry. It gave her soooooo much sukoon and then she started to slip away.
Funky_chicken...cancer is a horrible. Your cousins are about to lose their mother...they're not really thinking of your differences with them. Go to them, be there for them, see if you can help out in any way and do your part. Yes, you have a part to play now. You know your khala has a disease that will take her life in 4 weeks time, you now have a role to play and have a reponsibility towards her. If your mother can move past this, so can you.