Re: Can your in-laws actually be like your real parents?
I made sure my husband and I bought our own house BEFORE we got married so that I wouldn't have to live with them. They are really nice people and I really respect them but I just knew that if I lived with them it would ruin our relationship because I am quite set in my ways. Now my husband's brother is getting married and his wife will move in with my in laws and I wish them all the luck in the world…but I just couldn't do it.
And people in our community did talk and say to my MIL "oh didn't your daughter-in law wanna live with you…blah..blah" but she was supportive about it and was happy that her son was getting his own place, I guess it's not sooooo bad when you have 3 sons. It will be interesting to see how it works out when my SIL will live with them.