Re: Can you really put a girl above your mother?
I will only agree with you in case of certain exceptional circumstances. A friend of mine has a family that is intentionally delaying his marriage for years. They refuse to even meet girls’ families citing one excuse or another. For example, if the girl is not well known to him, his parents will say they can’t marry into unknown people. If he knows the girl, his family says he is blinded by her charms, etc. The guy has given up on lots of his own likes/dislikes overtime and really needs to marry but his family is extremely stubborn. Friends suggested to him to just marry a girl whose family can understand his circumstances but girls’ families show no further interest after they’re told about his family’s situation. Some even suggested he must be a player for not getting married till now or may have demands for money, etc. Friends know its just his stubborn family.