Re: Can you ever recover from being cheated on or having rishta breakdown?
Yeh karva sach hai. I was her shoulder to cry on now I’m the one wo needs shoulder to cry on. I knew her for such a long time for long time I thought she can’t use me like this. Maybe I did something wrong but you’re right I was naive. Wish I could blame her family or something else but truth is she never loved me it was all lies and her own choice. She is very religious now and I can’t understand how she can have relationship with me, say she loves me and then use me har tara se. Accept karna Mushkil hai kyon ki Woh aisi nahi hai main sochta tha. she really only loved that guy and he is very wealthy so she won’t have any worries in life chalo acha hai. Like your friend i want to ask her these questions ..even if her husband has money will he ever have time to spend with her doing small things, will he be able to make romantic candlelight dinner for her, will he be able to write love letters for her, make her fav food for lunch and pack it for her when she goes to work, will he have time to play or sing her a song, will he be able to build her the house of her dreams like an architect can exactly like she wants and will he be there for her and only her when she or her family need extra support and listening ear rather than money? Will he sacrifice his goals and dreams for her? Or if all this gets too much will he let go and find an easier way?