Can you ever recover from being cheated on or having rishta breakdown?

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Re: Can you ever recover from being cheated on or having rishta breakdown?

@Xtron

Ya sound like nice chap..I don’t think there is anything right now that will make you feel better. Right now, you are going through a screwed up situation. So i pray that may Allah heal you. You see..as i see from this situation that the consolation is that this is temporary. At some point the pain will recede into the background. My belief is..if you have got good intentions..good stuff will fall into your place. Another..fact of life is that what happens in life often cannot be controlled by you and that ambiguity is something you must live with. If and when you can ‘let go’, then you will be in a better position both emotionally and intellectually to make the best choice for you.

Remember too that life will have many ‘ups’ for you and I can guarantee that you will feel happy again because that is how the dice lands.

thanks for good advice bro and for the prayers. Need to think ahead about life and not get emotional. Hopefully it works out. I feel used emotionally and physically. I thought if you are engaged to a girl and she wants to be emotionally and physically involved with you she is serious enough to get married. I can’t say some parts of our relationship didn’t go into haram territory they did. I don’t get it I remember she initiated things and I’d want to have a conversation on life, children and our marriage but she’d distract me and we’d get up to other things. Or we would talk about her, her family and their expectations.