Can you ever recover from being cheated on or having rishta breakdown?

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Re: Can you ever recover from being cheated on or having rishta breakdown?

@redvelvet

I think you can feel it at various points along the way…but we overlook/squash that realization for various reasons…such as we enjoy talking to the person, or we’re used to them, or we hope that things will get better/stronger with time, or we give more importance to their words and not actions. Try jogging your memory…you may have experienced fleeting moments of doubt about her level of reciprocation that you banished from your mind for some reason or the other.

You are right. There were moments like that however she was very physically affectionate and whenever we met she would be like that so it was hard to think of anything like that. I had never met a pakistani girl who liked me that much. I was the first one she was like that with and we were engaged. I thought no desi girl would be so affectionate with a guy she didnt intend to marry. I made assumptions but I am much stronger now.