Can someone enlighten me?...

[Peony]

Re: Can someone enlighten me?..

Dear Homesick,
Have you visited Pakistan lately? Of if you live there, have you stepped past your chaukhat?

@homesick

Your argument ends here—> This is a random guy online. Yes families do share pictures but not with random people, and girls don’t find guys on their own to share their pictures with. So there is no comparison.

Yes, parents share pictures of their daughters to random guys online. They go on the internet to find their rishtas or go to those Rishta aunties. Don’t take my word for it. Go to sAsian Muslim Matrimonial marriage Service agency UK, get yourself an id and please be this poor girl’s rishta guide.

@homesick

And what do you deem as “inappropriate”? Naturally, any pic she sends online will be one that makes her looks attractive to the opposite sex. Is that in and of itself appropriate? I am asking from a Pakistani point of view of course. If someone doesn’t care about that POV then sky is the limit, do as you like.

Here’s my old fashioned Pakistani view of point. Absolutely inappropriate (1) pre-marital sex (2) all forms of pre-marital sex (please use your imagination).

Sending a picture of herself where she looks attractive to a guy that sounds like a potential life long mate, yes…why not? The guy aint gonna marry her without seeing her. Good Ole days of the 60’s are gone.