Re: Can someone enlighten me?..
It’s good you feel comfortable getting to know males!
Just make sure next time if the guy is stalling exchanging numbers or doesn’t bring up skyping or isn’t pushing for step 2 then skip him and go to the next guy. I know online matches are real and happen but honestly they aren’t for everyone. Like I said earlier, there are a lot of people online just simply to forget something/someone or they live alone and between work and home, they need to occupy themselves. Usually there are red flags and one of them is that the guy takes ages to respond and or is inconsistent with his messaging. Sometimes even the nature of the conversation can be telling.
Another word of advice: no matter how awesome or fun he sounds, never talk to someone for hours (in the initial stages anyway). Make your conversations an appropriate length and don’t tell him your life story all at once.