Can people forget their first love if they got married

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My name is imran and i was deeply fall in love with my friend we were together since owr childhood.we then got in love when my father got expired in class 8 then we came closer and closer but didnt hve touch eather when she was in class 10 got engaged and i moved from tht Area.after passing school she got restriction from her mother and i moved from her life because i want to see happy after getting inter she got married to a another imran a few months ago i were met my bhabhis brother in north unfortunately after almost nine year i see her again with her husband and children.it was sudden situation tht i see her after a decade.well tht day become the worst day of my life i couldnt sleep since then having addict of heavy smooking cant forget her my heart always feel tht wht the hell i did i should ran away from this society by the i way i tell u tht I m a student of arabic lieterature too and i understand quran easily because of i know how our society is all about mazhab ne din ke jagah lay liye is liye humhe pata hi hai wht is sifaat and how it will effect some1 if he dont get wt he want to need so tell me ur experiences and it will also involve the rights of man and woman in the light of quran

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Re: Well can people forgot their first love specially girls if they got married

Allah ap pe rehem karai ! Ameeen

Why do brides
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Yaar Allah tu kar hi raha hai per yea insaan kaahaan karta hai

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Y didnt u care abt this .....

Phool se pehle khusboo ko to dekho,
karne se pehle kaam ko to dekho,
kisike roop mein diwana naa bano,
surat se pehle uske dil ko to dekho

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well its was force marriage abb zindagaye ek aisa phool jis ke khooshboo koi aur mahsoos karta hai khoobsurti kisii aur ke liye hooty hai rang hoota kisi ke liye hai mazay koi aur laita hai barhaal yea ek aisi baat hai jo sirf woh samjh sakta hai he know wht is love all about

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hey listen up pal… I’m sure the girl is too busy with her new home, hubby, child to even bother abt past love… Time heals all wounds… I bet she has forgotten who u were in the first place too… :halo:

So stop worrying urself :stuck_out_tongue:

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depends if its a love marrige

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Well after having long gap we staring each other more than mins i forgot tht she is with her hubby and she too u cant forgot ur love1s but u hve to do something we call sacrificing zindagaye main halaat kabhi ek jaisay nahi hooty aur baat shahdi ke u hve to make it easy other wise u know our society

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nahee i think she does remember u but time has changed like shes got child an hubby sooo.....s

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'it depends'....... I say this sentence only when there is uncertainity of trust!

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hey luk i wouldnd bother thinking about this girl any more if you couldnt tel your feelings to her back then why bring it up now and uspet her married life, after all she has kids to think about what i sugest is that theirs plenty of other girls ou just have to get out there and meet the right one :halo:

dont spoil the rest of your life thinking about this girl who already has a family:confused:

its just a truth u will have to face becosue beleive it or not you will be happy one day and you’ll always look back and think it was a gud thing but things always hapen for a reason what ever hapens in your kismet is written by the All power full Allah :slight_smile: you cant change that, and i doubt u will forget your first love but thats whats called moving on you cant but you have to forget her :smiley:

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yep exactly like wat pagli sed.......its all abt kismat and allah's swt wishes......if allah wanted u to marry her then u shall and if allah didnt then u wont.....so i suggest u forget her once u get married to sum1 else u will notice how she feels.

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i just thought i was wrighting nonsense cos i didnt really proof read any of it:halo: :smiley:

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lolzzz well i got wot u ment

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am glad somone did cos i think he did a runner:hehe:

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loooloool

hold up.....i fink he went to get his love back!

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proly...........lol

so hows u doing

luk i got 50 post to get my 2k:D

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haha i cant beat u now

yeh me fyn
hadda a geog. trip todai.......sum coursewrok to do on beaches n ****
man ui wz freezin ma hed off!
i culdnt even feel it wen ma frend smacked ma face cz i wz smackin her first lol

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lol…yeah it was really cold today i went out wid a T shirt on thinking it would be nice and then ran back in the house and put a coat on:hehe:

well u still could :smiley:

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the only ull rmember is the one u marry…and theyll b the one u truely loved :halo: