Can people forget their first love if they got married

[P_GL]

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@lifeless

the only ull rmember is the one u marry…and theyll b the one u truely loved :halo:

mere nal bolniye ya us de nal:halo:

[_ahn]

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Sukker keroo bhai k uss k bachoo nay tumhay MAMOO nahi kaha

[P_GL]

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@@ahn@

Sukker keroo bhai k uss k bachoo nay tumhay MAMOO nahi kaha

haan yeh bhi sahi hai

[desidudecool]

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lol as foolish as it sounds it is hard to forget,i remember something similar happened to me a while ago....i made sure that i did nt come into contact with that person wherever she was invited i did nt show up.

[nstar777]

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@imranjaff

AOA My name is imran and i was deeply fall in love with my friend we were together since owr childhood.we then got in love when my father got expired in class 8 then we came closer and closer but didnt hve touch eather when she was in class 10 got engaged and i moved from tht Area.after passing school she got restriction from her mother and i moved from her life because i want to see happy after getting inter she got married to a another imran a few months ago i were met my bhabhis brother in north unfortunately after almost nine year i see her again with her husband and children.it was sudden situation tht i see her after a decade.well tht day become the worst day of my life i couldnt sleep since then having addict of heavy smooking cant forget her my heart always feel tht wht the hell i did i should ran away from this society by the i way i tell u tht I m a student of arabic lieterature too and i understand quran easily because of i know how our society is all about mazhab ne din ke jagah lay liye is liye humhe pata hi hai wht is sifaat and how it will effect some1 if he dont get wt he want to need so tell me ur experiences and it will also involve the rights of man and woman in the light of quran

Move on dude She is married and I assume she is happy.

[imranjaff]

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@sweet.i.f

yep exactly like wat pagli sed.......its all abt kismat and allah's swt wishes......if allah wanted u to marry her then u shall and if allah didnt then u wont.....so i suggest u forget her once u get married to sum1 else u will notice how she feels.

Well as a muslim u most of the people dont know wht is kismat taqdeer nasib.i know all r man made things.there is no kismaat nasib and tqadeer,u hve first realize wht is Allah All r human made society things and i belive tht all prob relate to ecom and social.MAn is known through is feeling we dont hve tht sense we aent call Insaan barhaal yea alag bahas hai.wase salay insaan bara hi .................. hai.Her mom is conservative u cant forget ur past but u hve to do it because of ur society warna waqt bhi kuch nahi app ke paida hoonay ke baad yea app keliye start hoo jata hai warna tu yea bhi kuch nahi

[AQ]

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Your first love should be after you get married.

:-(

[KhuShi786]

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imrannn check ur PMs

[nstar777]

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@The Voice

depends if its a love marrige

How can u forget your first love??

[UZ]

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@P@GL!

hey luk i wouldnd bother thinking about this girl any more if you couldnt tel your feelings to her back then why bring it up now and uspet her married life, after all she has kids to think about what i sugest is that theirs plenty of other girls ou just have to get out there and meet the right one :halo:

dont spoil the rest of your life thinking about this girl who already has a family:confused:

its just a truth u will have to face becosue beleive it or not you will be happy one day and you’ll always look back and think it was a gud thing but things always hapen for a reason what ever hapens in your kismet is written by the All power full Allah you cant change that, and i doubt u will forget your first love but thats whats called moving on you cant but you have to forget her

pagli is saying right its fate so move on

[decent_Felow]

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@imranjaff

well its was force marriage abb zindagaye ek aisa phool jis ke khooshboo koi aur mahsoos karta hai khoobsurti kisii aur ke liye hooty hai rang hoota kisi ke liye hai mazay koi aur laita hai barhaal yea ek aisi baat hai jo sirf woh samjh sakta hai he know wht is love all about

I gues u hav this kinda feeelin now

Gham ne hasne na diya,
zamane ne rone na diya,
is uljhano ne jine na diya,
thak ke jab sitaron se panah li,
neend aayi tho aapki yaad ne sone na diya

[UZ]

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@Anwaar Qureshi

Your first love should be after you get married.

:-(

nice answer

[imranjaff]

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@KhuShi786

imrannn check ur PMs

Check ur pm too and i also send u message through msn:)

[P_GL]

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@imranjaff

Well as a muslim u most of the people dont know wht is kismat taqdeer nasib.i know all r man made things.there is no kismaat nasib and tqadeer,u hve first realize wht is Allah All r human made society things and i belive tht all prob relate to ecom and social.MAn is known through is feeling we dont hve tht sense we aent call Insaan barhaal yea alag bahas hai.wase salay insaan bara hi .................. hai.Her mom is conservative u cant forget ur past but u hve to do it because of ur society warna waqt bhi kuch nahi app ke paida hoonay ke baad yea app keliye start hoo jata hai warna tu yea bhi kuch nahi

taqdeer is not a man made thing, what ever hapened between you too have hapened for a reason now she may/or may not, be happy in her own life socoiety does tell you to forgert her but at the time when she was unmarried why did you not tell her your feelings why did you both not get married that isnt societys fault thats a fualt of your own

how can you call it true love if you didnt even fight for that person to be with you:)

[sidz_angel]

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@Anwaar Qureshi

Your first love should be after you get married.

[K_Khan]

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@Anwaar Qureshi

Your first love should be after you get married.

:-(

indeed, that would be your 1st AFTER marriage.. :o

PS: (topic) tharkee log. :o

[P_GL]

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@uncle_falker

indeed, that would be your 1st AFTER marriage.. :o

PS: (topic) tharkee log. :o

kitne 1st hote hain:konfused:

[imranjaff]

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@P@GL!

taqdeer is not a man made thing, what ever hapened between you too have hapened for a reason now she may/or may not, be happy in her own life socoiety does tell you to forgert her but at the time when she was unmarried why did you not tell her your feelings why did you both not get married that isnt societys fault thats a fualt of your own

how can you call it true love if you didnt even fight for that person to be with you:)

it wasnt a 1 sided love and taqdeer is nothing if u born in estate or in pakistan
its not ur taqdeer if u got some 1 its not ur nasib basic thing is Allah has made laws and man hve to follow it.wht u do if her parents come againt u yea tu is lakri ke zindagaye kharab kar do is ko baad naam kar do.i think taqdder comes from the word qudraat mean natures law ALlah tu marhbaan hai lakin yea insaan hai har chiz per qabiz hoo jata hai wase bhi main kisi bahas main parna nahi chahta

[P_GL]

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@imranjaff

it wasnt a 1 sided love and taqdeer is nothing if u born in estate or in pakistan its not ur taqdeer if u got some 1 its not ur nasib basic thing is Allah has made laws and man hve to follow it.wht u do if her parents come againt u yea tu is lakri ke zindagaye kharab kar do is ko baad naam kar do.i think taqdder comes from the word qudraat mean natures law ALlah tu marhbaan hai lakin yea insaan hai har chiz per qabiz hoo jata hai wase bhi main kisi bahas main parna nahi chahta

okie.....i wouldnt know about the Laws in pakistan as i dont live there i am merely a stranger that goes there time to time to spend time with the family we have there.

for pakistani people it is hard to beleive they can make their own destiny, infact i have met a few that refuse to beleive they have a destiny such as ur self, if you really loved her you could have talked your parents round nothing is impossible people just make things impossible for them selfs, if people are going to ruin other peoples happiness then why abide by that........

there are alot of ways you can o around this but people become ignorant becouse they think about these damn people wat they will think who cares what people think:) they are gona talk wether you do gud or bad

[decent_Felow]

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