can I have some advice from people who may be known to this problem?

[schmeardo]

Re: can I have some advice from people who may be known to this problem?

Take this advice! And seriously! This has happened to countless girls before you. Don’t be pressured into going to Pakistan. Inform the local masjid, as well as the local authorities about what your situation is. Go to the local police, call social services, WHATEVER you can think of, and tell them of your situation. The might be able to prevent you from leaving the country.

@Paheli00

I think you going to Pakistan is a HORRIBLE idea! Once there, your father can do whatever he wants to (with help from his family). Your passport, access to phone/internet could be easily taken away. There are plenty of horror stories out there. I’m pretty sure you don’t have have addresses for your dad’s family in Pakistan…and even if you did, your dad (with his family’s help) could easily have you physicall taken/held captive somewhere else. Your friends and UK agencies can’t help you if they can’t locate you. And IF they do end of find you…who knows what sort of things you would be subjected to by then (assuming your father doesn’t go as far as having your murdered…which is something I wouldn’t put past him based on what you wrote).