Re: can I have some advice from people who may be known to this problem?
It sounds nice in theory, and its good to give the benefit of the doubt that the guy could be nice. However, practically speaking, its unlikely they’d be compatible. She’s quite clear that she has British values, and some guy who was born and raised in Pakistan isn’t going to think like she does. If she goes through hell going to Pakistan and being forced into marrying this (or whichever other) guy, make no mistake that she’ll go through a bigger hell once this comes comes over to the UK to live with her. And while its easier to get out of the situation right now, it won’t be then.