can I have some advice from people who may be known to this problem?

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Re: can I have some advice from people who may be known to this problem?

@saimab33

I am not from the UK, but if in the worst case scenario, you have to marry your cousin, is it possible for you to sponsor him to come to UK? I heard now the rules are making it more difficult. So you need a certain amount of money in the bank, or you need to be working at a job that has a certain income level, and you cant be on government benefits. You may want to bring this up to your father as an argument against marrying someone from Pakistan. Letting him know that even IF you were to marry his nephew, in your current situation, you will not be able to sponsor him. This may buy you enough time to finish your degree, and get a good job, which will enable you to support yourself and your sisters, and not have to rely on your parents.

Im really sorry you are going through all of this, and I pray to Allah to make this easier for you and your sisters.

Thank you for this, one thing I have not searched, will be googling this now